10 photo compliments
...that aren't quite compliments

A collection of the best comments you could hope to receive when you share your work online.
1. Your pictures are amazing! What camera do you use?
Starting with a simple one, I think enough has been said about statements like this. That meal was delicious, what oven do you have? Etc.
2. You're so lucky to be able to use these locations!
Being a photographer is a lot of hard work. Much of it isn't even about taking pictures, but organisation and management. And it's about making use of whatever you have, about making your own luck. Everyone can access decent enough locations with some effort. And ironically, sometimes the better location you have, the harder it is to use it creatively and do it justice. A good location doesn't equal good pictures. Back to the oven analogy...
3. Nice work, I bet it helps to have such a good model as yourself!
Thanks. But the words 'it helps' kind of killed the integrity of the compliment. Again, see 1 & 2.
4. I love your work! I really want to learn to make pictures just like yours.
Thanks, I'm glad you like my work. And thanks, I'm really happy that my work inspires you in some way. But imitation is not inspiration. Do you really have to aspire to make pictures 'exactly' like mine? Shall I send you the recipe?
5. Your work makes me want to give up photography.
To receive that powerful statement is very flattering. But if the person does what they say, I'd feel somewhat like Paula Abdul after one of her American Idol auditionees killed themselves. Please, I'd love to motivate you, not strike your creativity stone dead...
6. Great capture!
The word 'capture' can be considered an obnoxious name for any photograph (and it does get worse - I've heard 'catch' and 'click'). But especially when it's written below an intricate composite that involved x number of layers, and days of mental & technical brewing, I start to wonder whether the person was actually looking at the same picture and didn't accidentally switch their browser tab from a picture of a seagull in flight...
7. I loved/liked/enjoyed this
Looking at this kind of comment from a jokey perspective, the use of past tense can suddenly seem weirdly salacious, especially when it's a nude of myself... if you know what I mean.
8. Please eat a burger!
There seems to be a lot of nurses who surf flickr in their spare time whilst manning the NHS Direct phoneline, expressing concern for my physical health when they see my nude self-portraits. I need to assure them that I am quite ok, and that my body cannot be reliably represented by the contortion and distortion of angle, context, posture, processing. Plus when my mum hugs me every 3 months she assures me my back feels meatier than the last time. Please kindly note that even if I am under the risk of death by starvation, that I would have liked my flickr photostream to have nothing to do with my demise, and to be appreciated as art and art alone, as it was originally intended.
9. Great shot my friend ;-) Please check out my photostream and let me know what you think of my work.*MASSIVE PICTURE* *bold link*
Thanks! Are you going to delete your comment with the massive picture, or shall I?
10. Great work, I really like it! I think it could have been cropped tighter, though. *draws a note across the picture on flickr, indicating the required crop*
Put your work online, get people's opinions - that's the way it works, of course. I don't mind people giving their opinions on all aspects of an image. But sometimes the casual nature in which a suggestion is given makes me feel that the person doesn't quite comprehend how much thought has already gone into those aspects, and that a person's picture is their own work, a work that can't of course can't please everyone. Most people get that, thankfully!
Thanks for reading my semi-ranty whimsical post!
Do you have a not-quite-a-compliment to add to my ten?
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Comments
I get the "great shot, you must have an amazing camera" comment all the time..
You're a master at Photoshop. (Like it's impossible to take a real photo of something happening, so you must have pasted it together.)
Haha! Great post!
These are the ones I really hate (somewhat related to your #3):
"You are so beautiful in this picture!" or "Great lips!" or "What a cool pose".
Yeah, thanks. What about the angle, the crop, or the post-processing? I did post on a site for photographers now, didn't I?
@ Ilina - ooh yes! I've ranted about that in the past too. Very good point.
Though I will add just because I've met you, you are amazingly beautiful. It just doesn't make your pictures automatically great because of that ;)
@ Milosh - yes, i guess that comment could sound very presumptious if it's written on any picture without even any clue as to whether they spent a lot of time in PS.
When people reminds me that they have seen a similar photo before. aha
It can means that my work is not very original.
I've gotten that one too and it's one of the one's that bother me the most: "This is nice but i've actually seen this pose before." Sometimes they post the photo that they are insinuating i copied! I mean, c'mon, there are only so many poses in the world...
1) I think I remember asking you that question, only to find out you were conquering Flickr with a 2 megapixel point & shoot mounted on your car window or sitting in the grass... lol.
2) Locations... some of your most memorable work for me was done in the shower (Have they Gone?"), or "By the Lake," which is really just a pond at your university.
3) Someone who knows how to pose is a plus, and you are the master of morph.. lol
4) I started on my artistic journey inspired by your work, but rather quickly realized that we're in different leagues. Inspired, definitely. Imitation... would be futile... hahaha
5) Your work made me want to become an artist, and I continue to be inpired by you and others. Enough said.
I have heard some of these in the past. This was fun to read.
Jeez people... Take a chill pill already. These are just comments and critiques from people. If you can't handle them, then disable the comments or delete them, or don't bother posting your photos.
The point is that they're not 'critiques' - and this article IS the chill pill. If you meticulously delete each comment, or avoid sharing your work because of the comments, then you would be taking them too seriously...;)
I really liked this article. ;-)
What this amount to is photographers whining to other photographers about people who don't know how to compliment photographers because they don't have the vocabulary that photographers have. Give them a little benefit of doubt. More often than not these people are doing the best they can when they offer these "compliments".
I'm sure our pets don't drop debris on the carpet out of spite, but we can still happily spend time moaning about it ;-)
Well said!
#1: No debate, you’re perfectly right.
#2: If you’re a “location-photographer” it helps having cool locations around, like an ocean, the Rocky Moutains, a glacier. Whatever. But you’re right again, it doesn’t guarantee great pictures.
#3: Again, I think it truly helps having a model who doesn’t feel intimidated by a camera or a photographer. If it’s oneself, well, so much the better. Don’t feel bad about it, just take it as a compliment. I guess (prove me wrong) most of the viewers cannot appreciate the amount of work in photo anyway. And don’t forget a good part of your viewers are male and therefore easily distracted by a pretty face, myself included.
#4: Don’t take comments literally. Language is a fuzzy thing and especially written online comments can be misleading. More so, if the person writing the comments does not use his or her first language, like myself again. So please forgive me if I write nonsense in this comment, I may not be aware of it.
#5 Some people tend to depressions. Take it as the flattery it probably was meant to be.
#6 I guess “great capture” is not the compliment you want to hear with all the planning involved. It would be a compliment for my photos though because I very often take snapshots or ‘capture’ moving things. I on the contrary find it most annoying to read a comment like “great composition” below a snapshot. No composition done, sorry. Just luck. Well, maybe not only luck. Sometimes perspective, patience and even a little planning helps too. ;-)
#7: Agreed.
#8 Very interesting comment. I had to read the text twice. Actually, in sometimes I too have the urge to, well educate or help, the photographer. Consider this, I have two lovely daughters around your age. If I had the impression from your photos that you have some kind of problem, I would be urged to help. But I don’t think I would write some advice for a better life in a comment. Probably trying to make a joke. And most probably leaving you alone, it’s your live, isn’t it. What I wanted to say is, maybe these people just wanted to help.
#9: Annoying!
#10: Well yes. I said it in my profile, please comment, advice, criticize. It happens seldom. Once I had an advice for a cropping which I followed and it was an improvement. Voilà. The other time a had a comment which just made me think “how dare you?”.
It’s very difficult to comment on platforms like flickr. Most of the people you do not know. What are the right words to express your meaning? Again, what about language?
To tell a long story short, it’s like you said, don’t take comments too seriously. And forgive me my lengthy comment. Seems I’m in a talkative mood today.
C: Your pic is so beautiful; you must have a very expensive camera.
Me: I made this photo with a $10 camera.
C: You are ......... liar.
Me: -----------------------!!!
Btw.: Nikon says “A Photographer Is Only as Good as the Equipment He Uses”
http://www.petapixel.com/2011/09/28/nikon-says-a-photographer-is-only-as...
:-)
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